• If a boy loves a girl what do u say to that boy if the girl he loves is no longer with us. That’s what I had to deal with. Zach had been my best friend forever and when he got a girlfriend he was so happy and I was for him to. They stayed together over the course of high school. They where inspirable, unstoppable, and madly in love. So when they where getting engaged I was so happy and so was Zach. So I took him on an adventure 3 days before the wedding. We had a blast, running around in Vegas but his eyes never looked at another girl the way they did to lily while we where there. So it was late one night and I got a call from the police. They told me lily had been driving to go for a final fitting before the wedding. They said it was slippery that night from the rain earlier that day and her car spun out of control into oncoming traffic. She was hit head on and died at the scene. I hung up the phone and went to look for Zach. He was standing next to a slot machine and yelling, jumping, screaming. It was not until late that I found out he had won 40,000 dollars. I told him that night he was devastated. We left right away and drove home. He gave the money to the family for the funeral and then left town. I kept contact with him over the course of 3 years he never got married again or even fell in love again. They where a match made in heaven and he went to heaven at an early age. He was 26 and toke his life from himself. He called me that day and said he would see lily soon. I thought he meant he was going to visit her grave so I didn’t stop him. I have lived with that guilt for all these years. I fell in love with lily’s sister and we had 4 children and where married for 50 years till she died. So this goes to show what do u tell a boy who loves a girl she is no longer with us. The truth.