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Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 2:45 pm
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Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 10:53 pm
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 9:51 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 11:37 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 11:44 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 3:26 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 11:03 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 1:26 am
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Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 4:35 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 4:38 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 4:39 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 11:00 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 8:25 pm
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oh god. I will apologize in advance if I sound cold. but I have seen too much of this stuff.
1 - How well do you know him? How many times have you and him sat alone and talked seriously? How many years?
You need to KNOW him, THE REAL HIM, to love him. Do not let your heart waste the word love on anyone. EVER.
2 - If that man is stupid enough to change himself for any woman, don't bother, he is weak and will not be strong enough when you will need him most. This is almost always true.
the tree that bends easy in the summer winds is the worst to tie yourself to in the spring storms.
3 - Are you in school? Love isn't for school. Best saved or waited on.
The last thing you need in school is love, if you found a REAL lover, one that will last, BOTH of you can handle waiting until you BOTH are out of school and able to start a life with each other. HUMANS LIVE DECADES, love can wait a couple years.
Before I hear any 'You can't hold love back' crap. you can, especially something real. Real love is a level of understanding and caring for another that you can do that. A real LOVER may even do all they can to help you.
I used to go through the whole scenario you speak of. She not only left me for someone else, she took everything that fit in her car, The man she left with broke my nose and I learned how useless words like love are when you aren't 100% sure.
-.- cold truth #1 - you don't understand love, no one will ever understand love. Love isn't even explained with the word 'love'. So never utter the word to anyone until you literally HAVE to say it to speak.
Please do yourself a favor, if he isn't after you, grow up. You sound like and intelligent girl, and a nice one at that. You will live on, and he will maybe even regret not picking you. At least be happy that for now your freind has someone. You weren't stabbed in the back, she protected something important to her, she obviously thinks she has a bond with him.
You shouldn't call something like protecting a chance at love backstabbing, that would make everyone a backstabber.
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 11:22 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 8:10 pm
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