|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 9:23 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:52 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 5:58 am
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 7:05 am
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 8:42 am
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 8:37 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 8:19 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 9:50 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 11:46 am
|
|
|
|
DiSaStRoUs DeMoN CaT Okay, I am still extremely shy and whenever I try to get close I just back down since I'm so nervous. I want to hold his hand but he always has his hands in his pockets. My friend doesn't try to get me to do stuff to often so I think she's getting better at holding herself back from this, what she doesn't realize is how shy I am... How she put it, is that she is cupid for me, since my boyfriend and I wouldn't even have started to go out if it wasn't for her so I thank her for that. But it's hard to do stuff outside of school since he's actually not supposed to be dating at all xd Which I find hilarious. We're in Grade 8 if your wondering... But the most we can do is during lunch we always go out to the dock at the pond out back of our school. And lately I can never think of anything to say...help please?
if u both allways have ur hands in ur pockets, then y not just give him a hug instead? i kno that may make u rly nervous, but u gotta face that someday. besides he probably will like the hug. also about the fact that he isnt supposed 2 date. i can understand that. my parents are like that too, and im in 9th grade. according 2 them, i cant date til im 16 lol (i wonder what made them think i'd actually follow that rule...)
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 1:40 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 9:39 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 11:19 am
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 8:58 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 10:04 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 11:52 pm
|
|
|
|
DiSaStRoUs DeMoN CaT Okay, yes I am brand new in this guild. But I seriously need some help. sweatdrop Okay, so I'm going out with this guy and we've been together for a few months and well. We don't do anything together. We talk to each other ALOT during lunch and stuff. But I'm too shy to hug him or anything. My friend stole his hoodie one day and wouldn't let him have it back until he hugged me, but that just felt like I was being used. And earlier today we were holding hands only because my friend got us too. She made us walk back into the school like that. PEOPLE WERE STARING AT US! I felt so weird but totally comfortable...anyways, I want this relationship to go forward but I need a little bit of advice... Can you guys help, like at all?
Ahhh, peer pressure.
You should only do what YOU want to do in your relationship, not what your friends say you should be doing.
If holding hands with him felt comfortable, then do it, but you might just be the sort of person who likes to hold hands, and hates making a public display of themselves... I know many adults who dont want to hold hands or kiss in public, and it has nothing to do with the actual act of doing it, it is just that they hate other people watching them do it, or they hate doing it in public. Some people think that it is much more special to keep their affection private.
I suggest you not worry about people saying you are too shy, it is not necessary to do things just becasue everyone else does, no matter what age you are... especially when it comes to kissing and sex and things like that. They are much more enjoyable when you feel ready for them.
If you are too shy to hug him in public, let him know when you are in private together, and you can get used to it when you are alone. he is with you because he likes you, so he will not be afraid to hug you or hold your hand, he probably woud enjoy it too.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|