My Sexuality? Um... confused...

[Sonkurra-Taichou]

Personally, I recommend finding out if your school has a GSA (Gay-Straight Alliance). most likely it does. A GSA is a support group for teens, no matter what orientation they may be. And I guarantee the people there will understand your confusion.
And please, do NOT let religion change who you are as a person. It only makes it harder for yourself. I may be atheist but I understand the confines that religion puts on people. To some it may be their life and their savior, other a cage in which they cannot express themselves freely. I'm npt saying you can't HAVE religion, but if you take everything by the book (especially the bible) literally, you will have a hard life.

-Sonkurra-Taichou
-Age 15
-Male
-Gay  

[Milady Tabbs]

Hey there.

I agree with what a lot of people have said. But don't look at porn. No no no. Bad idea. You may think it's helping you, but then you might get addicted to it, and that isn't an outcome anyone desires.

But. I have another opinion that no one has really gone into. And that's the religion thing. I'm Christian myself. My parents are serious homophobes, and don't even like to talk about them. I don't why, but they do.

Anyway, I'll tell you this. God will still love you whatever you choose. He isn't going to love you any less because you're bisexual, or gay, or whatever. I'll tell you that He doesn't like the sin of it, but nonetheless, you're not going to change to Him.

I hope it's going well for you, whatever you've chosen. :] And if you want to talk, leave a comment on my profile, or send me a PM.

 

[S Metal Crusader B]

Don't experiment. Seriously. I fell in love with a guy. He had his way with me then pissed of. When I asked him whats the hell he was dong. He said he needed to experiment. And that how experimenting can break peoples hearts.  

[G u a r d i a n]

I agree. Don't experiment if it means it may hurt you or someone else.

As for religion - I'd advise you not to take everything literally. A lot of what is preached today has been influenced by the social status quo that varied from century to century, culture to culture. Gratify yourself, but don't abuse your freedom.  

[Drumgasmic Monkeyguy]

i know how you feel but this place isnt gonna help you at all. the only way you'll find out is if you try it out for yourself. a bunch of pics and vids are a lot different than doing it person. it might help to look at vids and stuff but you really wont be able to tell until you do things in real life  

[demon child me]

Well, you are young, so it might just be natural curiosity that everyone goes through. As for experimenting, don't, it won't help if you hurt others while you're at it.  

[Executive Anubis]

Lavender-the-9-tailed-fox

Glad you like it- but thing is, if your "God" can't accept who you are, and tries to make you something your not- he's not a good God and you shouldn't listen to him if he's gonna be that way. It's not fair. >__<

Yeeeaaah you obviously don't know too much about the Bible's take on homosexuality do you?

God loves everyone. However being homosexual is, according to the Bible, against nature. That doesn't mean God "won't accept you for who you are", it just means that He really wishes you would change.

There are things in my life that I do that goes against God's will. Does God hate me because of it? No, although I should try to remedy those things.  

[Lavender-the-9-tailed-fox]

Halo Hedgey

Lavender-the-9-tailed-fox

Glad you like it- but thing is, if your "God" can't accept who you are, and tries to make you something your not- he's not a good God and you shouldn't listen to him if he's gonna be that way. It's not fair. >__<

Yeeeaaah you obviously don't know too much about the Bible's take on homosexuality do you?

God loves everyone. However being homosexual is, according to the Bible, against nature. That doesn't mean God "won't accept you for who you are", it just means that He really wishes you would change.

There are things in my life that I do that goes against God's will. Does God hate me because of it? No, although I should try to remedy those things.

Well, no offense but I don't listen to ANYTHING the bible says.
I've never even read it, or even touched one in my entire life and I plan to keep it that way- although I do know a lot about it- I wish I didn't. Although I get what you're saying, it doesn't make it right for God to be that way, so I choose not to see him in such a bad hypocritical light. You say that God says it's against nature, yet, you say he just wants you to change,which is horrible. Why would you want someone to change? They are who they are, end of story.

God should know, obviously, that being gay is not a choice and isn't against nature SINCE lots of animals have been gay - so therefore if animals are from nature, and are made a certain way, n...it's not against nature and God's just being kind of...not nice... but that's just the way I see it, go ahead and disagree if you'd like. I really don't have a problem with it- as everyone is entitled to their own opinion and view.  

[The_Cursed_Phoenix]

Lavender-the-9-tailed-fox

Halo Hedgey

Lavender-the-9-tailed-fox

Glad you like it- but thing is, if your "God" can't accept who you are, and tries to make you something your not- he's not a good God and you shouldn't listen to him if he's gonna be that way. It's not fair. >__<

Yeeeaaah you obviously don't know too much about the Bible's take on homosexuality do you?

God loves everyone. However being homosexual is, according to the Bible, against nature. That doesn't mean God "won't accept you for who you are", it just means that He really wishes you would change.

There are things in my life that I do that goes against God's will. Does God hate me because of it? No, although I should try to remedy those things.

Well, no offense but I don't listen to ANYTHING the bible says.
I've never even read it, or even touched one in my entire life and I plan to keep it that way- although I do know a lot about it- I wish I didn't. Although I get what you're saying, it doesn't make it right for God to be that way, so I choose not to see him in such a bad hypocritical light. You say that God says it's against nature, yet, you say he just wants you to change,which is horrible. Why would you want someone to change? They are who they are, end of story.

God should know, obviously, that being gay is not a choice and isn't against nature SINCE lots of animals have been gay - so therefore if animals are from nature, and are made a certain way, n...it's not against nature and God's just being kind of...not nice... but that's just the way I see it, go ahead and disagree if you'd like. I really don't have a problem with it- as everyone is entitled to their own opinion and view.

I'm sorry but ((IDK if you are Christian)) you owe God some respect He made us he can tell us what to do, AND HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT OF NATURE it is a abomination, God made us and told us to POPULATE THE EARTH Homosexuality does not do that ((if it does it has to be scary)) I view Homosexuality as a mental illness and that you should see a therapist, does that offend people? Yes. Is it the truth? Also yes.  

[Deppfan]

Curse-of-the-Phoenix

Lavender-the-9-tailed-fox

Halo Hedgey

Lavender-the-9-tailed-fox

Glad you like it- but thing is, if your "God" can't accept who you are, and tries to make you something your not- he's not a good God and you shouldn't listen to him if he's gonna be that way. It's not fair. >__<

Yeeeaaah you obviously don't know too much about the Bible's take on homosexuality do you?

God loves everyone. However being homosexual is, according to the Bible, against nature. That doesn't mean God "won't accept you for who you are", it just means that He really wishes you would change.

There are things in my life that I do that goes against God's will. Does God hate me because of it? No, although I should try to remedy those things.

Well, no offense but I don't listen to ANYTHING the bible says.
I've never even read it, or even touched one in my entire life and I plan to keep it that way- although I do know a lot about it- I wish I didn't. Although I get what you're saying, it doesn't make it right for God to be that way, so I choose not to see him in such a bad hypocritical light. You say that God says it's against nature, yet, you say he just wants you to change,which is horrible. Why would you want someone to change? They are who they are, end of story.

God should know, obviously, that being gay is not a choice and isn't against nature SINCE lots of animals have been gay - so therefore if animals are from nature, and are made a certain way, n...it's not against nature and God's just being kind of...not nice... but that's just the way I see it, go ahead and disagree if you'd like. I really don't have a problem with it- as everyone is entitled to their own opinion and view.

I'm sorry but ((IDK if you are Christian)) you owe God some respect He made us he can tell us what to do, AND HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT OF NATURE it is a abomination, God made us and told us to POPULATE THE EARTH Homosexuality does not do that ((if it does it has to be scary)) I view Homosexuality as a mental illness and that you should see a therapist, does that offend people? Yes. Is it the truth? Also yes.

You are seriously deranged.  

[Afi_Kino]

Lavender-the-9-tailed-fox

Halo Hedgey

Lavender-the-9-tailed-fox

Glad you like it- but thing is, if your "God" can't accept who you are, and tries to make you something your not- he's not a good God and you shouldn't listen to him if he's gonna be that way. It's not fair. >__<

Yeeeaaah you obviously don't know too much about the Bible's take on homosexuality do you?

God loves everyone. However being homosexual is, according to the Bible, against nature. That doesn't mean God "won't accept you for who you are", it just means that He really wishes you would change.

There are things in my life that I do that goes against God's will. Does God hate me because of it? No, although I should try to remedy those things.

Well, no offense but I don't listen to ANYTHING the bible says.
I've never even read it, or even touched one in my entire life and I plan to keep it that way- although I do know a lot about it- I wish I didn't. Although I get what you're saying, it doesn't make it right for God to be that way, so I choose not to see him in such a bad hypocritical light. You say that God says it's against nature, yet, you say he just wants you to change,which is horrible. Why would you want someone to change? They are who they are, end of story.

God should know, obviously, that being gay is not a choice and isn't against nature SINCE lots of animals have been gay - so therefore if animals are from nature, and are made a certain way, n...it's not against nature and God's just being kind of...not nice... but that's just the way I see it, go ahead and disagree if you'd like. I really don't have a problem with it- as everyone is entitled to their own opinion and view.

Not saying I'm an Apologetic, but I'd REALLY like to hear just one instance of an animal being gay.

That aside, you really should just be who you are, but to yourself, for now. Being gay is just something you should blurt out when you're a kid. Your friends are too immature to understand, and you'll have to live with the family that most likely won't accept you, especially your dad. And if they treat you badly, you run away. You're alone. You're on the street, lost. Your future is ruined. Sad to say, but society is barely safe for gay adults, much less a child. Besides, people as young as you and me shouldn't be thinking about this kind of thing. We're still going through changes, things are weird. Just wait till your older when you KNOW your mind is clear.  

[Arties]

for me, i am bi when i am single. i am either lez or strait when i am with someone. it makes things less confusing.  

[Afi_Kino]

Arties

for me, i am bi when i am single. i am either lez or strait when i am with someone.

What's the difference?  

[Arties]

Trey the Red Rebel

Arties

for me, i am bi when i am single. i am either lez or strait when i am with someone.

What's the difference?

well i am bi when i am single meaning i am open to a girl or boy. when i am with a girl, i am only going to be with her and no one else, so i would be a lez. when i am with a boy i am only going to be with him so i would be strait. i would have to two-time whoever i am with to be bi and not single.  

[User 15282449]

Trey the Red Rebel

Not saying I'm an Apologetic, but I'd REALLY like to hear just one instance of an animal being gay.

You asked, I delivered.
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