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[Pesca]

If you did start a relationship and had a big blow out, then the friendship could become strained after a while. But, on the other hand, if the two of you had a great time together, you would become closer.

Personally, I would try the relationship. You would never have to wonder "what ifs".  

[Kestix]

you HAVE to make that relationship to work or the friendship is fcked  

[chii_chan17]

i understand you,i was dating a idiot for 3 years,and i still like him.if you two like eachother than go for it.it might work or not work at all,but if you don´t try it then you would not know.  

[Chii_Asakura]

I have one thing to say... once you go beyond friends, 80% of the time, you don't and/or can't go back to being friends.

It depends on how far you guys have gone and how well you can tolerate him during the relationship.

From experiences, I started learning these things about my ex's... and let's just say, they drove me insane. Going back to friends, I still see the flaws and stupidity... the usual, no common sense when it comes to some situation that requires it. I ended up yelling at him every time I see him, and now, I think he dislikes me xd (I feel like a mother, and I think he thinks I have a mother-complex).

 

[Vado ruggito]

yeah going out with someone then breaking up (if you ever do) its pretty hard to stay friends. the last girl i broke up with was nice before but after she seemed like such a retard and now i regret ever going out with her  

[vampiress911]

Same exact thing happened to me last year. I had known him since 5th grade (last ear I was in 8th), and started to fall for him. Now we're still going out, and I love him more than anything.

What I did:
I tried to become better friends with him. After I did that I waited for him to ask me out. I know it sounds hard, but then you know that they definately like you back. If you impatiant and think that you can't wait that long then think again. I have the impatience level of a starved monkey with a banana in front of him. If I did it, so can you.  

[Kaelis Tejil]

be careful. i went out with my best friend, and then after she dumped me she hacked and hijacked my gaia...no lie my original account was Caveo Ookami and she still uses it from time to time sweatdrop  

[azrael the reaper_95210]

well, me and a really good friend went out for awhile. but due to my hectic life, I was not able to be around much and it didnt work out. But we are still really good friends. hopefully, if you do try and it doesnt work, you to can still be friends.
If I were you, I'd try it, with the understanding that it is just to see if it might work out. that way, if not, at least you tried it out.....  

[shadow-lover2]

angelics1on1

why is it that i fall for a good friend of mine. he is a complete idiot and i fall in love with him! is it ok to go out with him or will this really screw mour friendship over?

to let you know it really is up to you... all dipends on your freindship with this guy.. in my past it realy dose f**k thing up