Help! Boy Troubles!

[fairywaif]

First off, there's a guy that I don't paticularly like that dropped-out from school. He has been e-mailing me, and telling me he likes me. A Lot. So, what do I do? sweatdrop burning_eyes
Second, there's this guy, he likes me and I like him. (I actually didn't start liking him until he told me. I'm very cautious. Anyways, we're in new calsses and we see each other every day and he says "Hey." or "Hey. What's up?" He's a very low-key guy, unlike me. I was wondering, how do i get this relationship to move forward. I'm pretty sure he still likes me. Please ddon't suggest anything too brash! redface  

[Lunar_Sunset]

for the first one i would tell the guy i only like u as a friend. for the second one i would try to start hangin out with him.  

[shani26]

About the E.mail guy, tell him you don't want to talk to him.
About the guy in your class, you can ask him to study with you for the exam, or try to spend time with him in the recess  

[Dreamalongstars]

for the first guy I think you should just ignore him. For the second guy I think you should let him make the first move, but have a fair amount of lengthy conversations to let him know you are interested.  

[fairywaif]

Well, I should explain more. We had a class together, American History. And he told me liked me. And I didn't believe him because in middle school there were boys who did that as a joke and I didn't beligve he like ME. Well, he wasn't kidding, and we worked on a project together. Anyways, I see him in the halls every day, and we say hi, and sometimes we talk more. I don't know, I just want to have something more. Of course, I don't know how to tell him (delicately I guess...) and if I DID know what to say, I don't know how I'd get the words out... *Sigh*.  

[shani26]

In my opinoin there is something stronger then word, actions! that why i don't think you should tell him you like him when you can show it.
There are some guys who get confuzed when you say: "I love you," but every body likes to get attion.
I never told a guy i like him before i went to a few dates with him, and kissed him. I think every body should really take time to know people, before they make a comitment.  

[BluePod]

fairywaif

Well, I should explain more. We had a class together, American History. And he told me liked me. And I didn't believe him because in middle school there were boys who did that as a joke and I didn't beligve he like ME. Well, he wasn't kidding, and we worked on a project together. Anyways, I see him in the halls every day, and we say hi, and sometimes we talk more. I don't know, I just want to have something more. Of course, I don't know how to tell him (delicately I guess...) and if I DID know what to say, I don't know how I'd get the words out... *Sigh*.

He's had enough courage to say that he likes you, why don'y you return the favour if that's how you feel.  

[mr_zoot]

a date is not a commitment. Tell him to take you out next weekend

as for the first guy, be honest and do not be tempted to soften the blow or anything. Do NOT ask him to be friends, (that pisses guys off)  

[gearfreak]

The first guy, well... Sorry for him, but he's gotta go.

The second guy, he really went out on a limb telling you that. return the favor. Dont exactly throw yourself at him, persay, but try to be as friendly as possible toward him, but most of all, don't embarass him.  

[-iiDR3AM3R-]

4 one thing idk wat brash means so i'll just put down my advice. this "guy" who dropped out of school likes you. if you don't particulary like him back then don't lead him on. or mistakenly lead him on. besides if you guyz end up 2gether, ask ur self this question " CAN HE SUPPORT ME? " you know cuz he dropped out of skool. can he, if you had a family, support you all. now you like this "guy" at school and he likes you 2. So just ask him... wait... find out first if he haz a gf, then ask him out on a date. get 2 know him then maybe if thingz are goin good you guyz can become a couple. now if thingz turn sour try and work it out. but honey if he smokes or does drugz or somethin, drop him... but gently. because you shouldn't have 2 suffer 4 some1 else. unless 4 a good reason and itz ur decision. but you should still try and help him through it. and thatz all i have 2 say.  

[Pesca]

BACHELOR NUMBER TWO!!!!

Start hanging out with him. Keep it casual and then see where things go from there.  

[Kestix]

fairywaif

Well, I should explain more. We had a class together, American History. And he told me liked me. And I didn't believe him because in middle school there were boys who did that as a joke and I didn't beligve he like ME. Well, he wasn't kidding, and we worked on a project together. Anyways, I see him in the halls every day, and we say hi, and sometimes we talk more. I don't know, I just want to have something more. Of course, I don't know how to tell him (delicately I guess...) and if I DID know what to say, I don't know how I'd get the words out... *Sigh*.

Ok the first guy is a loser for ropping out and he wont make any money. If you want to get things movin you should ask him about going around town doing stuff. That would really get things rollin. After that he get a lot more comfortable with you and now it's your turn to share some feelings. Let er rip!