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Good to have gaia bf?
  yea, why not they don't know you
  HELLZZ NO, they could be a creeper
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 6:40 pm
I guess this can go in this forum...

This is a weird question and most of you guys are gonna be like..wtf
lol
But would it be weird to "date" some one on gaia?
Cus a few mintues ago i was thinking about something like that... like not necessarily let them know where you live and all that creepy stuff, but like someone you can talk to and you can trust (online) because idk it seems like i would be able to trust that person with more things than real life friends, since they don't really know me

but then i thought "wait is that a good idea".
so then i came here to the people who always are good with advice wink

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yea i know this is complicated and very odd..kinda embarrassing redface
but please help?  
PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 6:43 pm
My ex-boyfriend introduced himself to me through Gaia after stalking me at school for weeks.

A year later, he raped me twice in my own home, and it's been two years since and he still calls my house every day, about 40 times each day.

DON'T DO IT.
 

Andy Magnuseth


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 6:47 pm
OH MY !
thank you for the advice smile
and block his number?  
PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 6:52 pm
i know this is a social netowrking site, and some people come on here and find friends (and love in some cases), but i don't think anyone should date anybody on a web site. probably for every decent awesome guy (or girl), there's like 10 jealous stalking creeps who simply can't just find someone in the real world, so they go to sites like gaia or whatever to compensate, because you're right: it is easier to open up to somebody when there's no face to face contact, and that isn't always good. they can easily use whatever you say against you.

i'd be very wary if i were in your position (i was there once, except it wasn't on gaia.)  

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 6:55 pm
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i know this is a social netowrking site, and some people come on here and find friends (and love in some cases), but i don't think anyone should date anybody on a web site. probably for every decent awesome guy (or girl), there's like 10 jealous stalking creeps who simply can't just find someone in the real world, so they go to sites like gaia or whatever to compensate, because you're right: it is easier to open up to somebody when there's no face to face contact, and that isn't always good. they can easily use whatever you say against you.

i'd be very wary if i were in your position (i was there once, except it wasn't on gaia.)


I never thought about it that way o.o
alrighty well im done
*sigh of relief* lol
i will NOT date any one on gaia : DD  
PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 6:55 pm
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OH MY !
thank you for the advice smile
and block his number?
Tried that one and a half years ago. He now uses a relay system.  

Andy Magnuseth


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 2:27 am
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OH MY !
thank you for the advice smile
and block his number?
Tried that one and a half years ago. He now uses a relay system.


Call the police on him. :/  
PostPosted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 12:13 pm
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I think it depends.... for 2 years I was involved in intense rp with a group of peeps on here and two of our rpers totally fell for each other, he lives in Canada and she's in california but they exchange calls, its pretty cool
 

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