Yes, one of those threads again!

[maydaymouse]

Hi! I'm going into my sophmore year of highschool in a couple of weeks, and I want to have a boyfriend who I actually LIKE!! Unfortunately, the ones I do attract, I really only see as my friends, and this one guy, my dreaded ex, is screwing with my head! Still! He was my first boyfriend, we tried dating a couple of times, but long story short, he was a total douche-bag who cheated on me. Plus a bunch of other problems. But, the problem is, that I can't be mad at him, despite the cheating and telling me that he "loves me" when he's flirting with other girls. And, I don't want to be like that with him anymore, though I'm sadly, one of those people who can't say no to anybody. So, please just help and give me some advice on how to get him out of my head for good, and so that I can finally be with a guy who's good to me! Thank you for reading it all the way to the end!

 

[Vengeful Elegance]

Just stay away from him until you have your head on straight.  

[Paradoxial Mouse]

Remind him that you broke up for a reason, tell him you'd rather 'just be friends'. That way, you aren't saying no, but you aren't saying yes either.  

[Love Volim]

About the best thing you can do IMPO is ignore him. Focus on something else, someone else, anything else.
Fill you're mind with something unrelated to him.
If he wants more then friendship, like Mouse said, tell him you just wanna be friends. Don't be scared to stand up and tell him to shove it where the sun don't shine, if you feel the desire.