Welcome to Gaia! ::

-jumps out of closet- Wraaaa! pirate

Glad to see you finally come out of the closet

-grins-

Believe me, if I were ever to come to the realization that I was gay, my reaction would be a lot more conflicted and staggering. Right now, I'm pretty sure I'm not.

I'm straight, but... well... It's difficult to explain. -PROCEEDS TO EXPLAIN- I recently realized that as much as I MAY be curious about sex, I actually have very little interest in sex whatsoever and actually stop myself and feel ashamed when I do think about it. I'm a self-restrained individual when it comes to that thing because I want everyone to like me. I prefer to keep my friends.

I like men. Women... eh... I guess there's some really pretty ones, but none that I feel THAT attraction to . There's one thing common in both genders I can appreciate: that's when they have a really nice butt (though I keep my mouth shut and look away, pretending not to notice because it's not exactly nice to stare and makes me feel like a weirdo... >.>;;;

Zetao- There's never enough candy ;p I miss trick-or-treating. City folk are lucky. They actually live close enough to other people to go out for Halloween.

Well, sounds like you're straight to me. And I wouldn't say it's that strange that you don't think about sex, or that you try not to. Everyone is a little different. I know people that all they do is think about sex, and I also know people that it rarely ever crosses their minds. And, honestly, you have unusual friends if they would stop liking you just because you thought about sex.

Also, I wasn't actually accusing you of being gay. It was just intended as a joke because you jumped out of the closet. But I do appreciate how willing you were to explain yourself. Not often I find people willing to do that.

I'm in the same boat as you. I definitely am attracted to males but there have been one or two females ((though one of them is now making the transition to become male)) that have caught my attention and I could easily admit I had a brief crush on in the past. I like to call myself "openly straight" - a term that Eric Stonestreet (plays Cam on Modern Family) said on Ellen awhile back to describe his sexual preference.

When it comes to sex itself, I don't have any interest in it. Probably because I want to wait until I'm married to have any. Sure, I may be curious about certain aspects of sexual interactions, but I'm not as "crazed" about sex as others are. I prefer to have my romantic relationships to be based on a friendship level, not sex.