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SniperWolf16

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:45 am
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He'll always be my

Have you met him in person?
By other posts here it would seem that you haven't...
I believe long-distance relationships can work,
but if you haven't even really met the guy,
I doubt it will last very long.
Just stay friends for now,
that would probably be best.

I'm a freshman in highschool and my bf's a junior.
(2 days after Valentine's Day is our 3 month)
We go to the same school, but we've talked about our relationship
and I know we'll be together for a long time.
When he goes to college,
I know he might go somewhere far away,
but that distance isn't going to get in the way of our relationship (I hope.)

Long-distance relationships, in my opinion,
only work out if you really get to know the person
before it actually becomes long-distance
(if that makes any sence at all.)
It's best to meet in person before it actually becomes a dating situation.
But I do not suggest meeting him if you haven't already unless you really trust him,
the internet is ful of crazy people (like me XD)

(Man I think this is a really confusing rant, sorry about that.)


S u p e r h e r o <3


True...you have to meet them before anything. That's where I went wrong. I wasn't fast enough to save the guy I love so much so right now he blocked me and probably will never talk to me again crying But anyways..you should really meet him before you go any further 3nodding  
PostPosted: Sun Feb 11, 2007 11:27 am
Long-distance relationships are almost impossibly hard to keep going.

If you have never met this person and have "fallen in love", there is a good chance that it wont work.

Keep in mind that there are billions of people on earth and statistically at LEAST 30 will be your "perfect match" but in different ways. Don't set yourself up for failure, because it'll only leave deep scars. If you can't even be completely honest with him, there is no way it'll work.  

VelocityIllusion


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 12:01 pm
We've worked things out.
I'm not going to date him... We're just friends.
 
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