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Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 4:31 am
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Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 8:12 am
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Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 3:23 pm
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Calypsophia technically, cheating is when something is done behind the others back. there are people who have 'open relationships' where it's known that the other dates other people and they're ok with it. even so, there are rules that are followed so that the 2 in the primary relationship dont end up feeling slighted, or less special than they should feel. but regardless of what kind of relationship your friend has with his gf, what he did seems to me to be more disrespectful of his gf than anything else. on the outside, she might not have made a fuss about it, but on the inside it probably hurt a bit.
Well, to be frank, he was never all that good with women, found out today the girl at the bus stop didn't give him her number, she gave him her boyfriends number, so he got yelled at.
My friend and his girlfriend argued a bit, he told her the whole thing the next time they got together. Smart of him too, he was pondering saying it over the phone, but decided to do it in person. I found out from my friends girlfriend that they do have a guideline, which in his case would have been introducing this new girl to her, Sorta like asking permission, I found it interesting, sorta like swingers.
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Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 4:31 am
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newtypephynix Calypsophia technically, cheating is when something is done behind the others back. there are people who have 'open relationships' where it's known that the other dates other people and they're ok with it. even so, there are rules that are followed so that the 2 in the primary relationship dont end up feeling slighted, or less special than they should feel. but regardless of what kind of relationship your friend has with his gf, what he did seems to me to be more disrespectful of his gf than anything else. on the outside, she might not have made a fuss about it, but on the inside it probably hurt a bit. Well, to be frank, he was never all that good with women, found out today the girl at the bus stop didn't give him her number, she gave him her boyfriends number, so he got yelled at. My friend and his girlfriend argued a bit, he told her the whole thing the next time they got together. Smart of him too, he was pondering saying it over the phone, but decided to do it in person. I found out from my friends girlfriend that they do have a guideline, which in his case would have been introducing this new girl to her, Sorta like asking permission, I found it interesting, sorta like swingers.
yeah kinda.. or some kind of open relationship. I been there, done that. it's not for me, and I'll never EVER do it again. the possible consequences just arent worth it.
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Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2008 9:10 pm
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Any one definition of anything, let alone cheating, is completely based on a person's perception.
While I completely agree with you that was an unwise move on your friends' part, I must ask if his girlfriend witnessed this. If she did not, you should tell her, because your friend might have made the claim that "they don't consider it cheating" to save himself.
In today's society, what you dsecribed is not "cheating," but is still incredibly untrustworthy and deceitful. Your friend was obviously lying when he said he "loved his girlfriend forever" and then walked up to another girl and began making moves on her.
My best advice is to tell the girlfriend if she does not already know, and if she doesn't seem upset by it, you cna only let it go. And I sincerely hope that you don't take his example to heart - I don't know who this girl is, but I know that most women/girls do care if their partners start flirting with someone random.
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Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 8:54 am
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Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 9:17 am
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Posted: Sat Feb 02, 2008 12:30 pm
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diffrent ppl have diffrent guidlines tat they want their bf or gf to follow. it depends on the ppl if his gf was fine with it then there is no problem same with every realtionship. some ppl have stricter guidlines then others. so it just depends on wat is okay with them and wat isnt.
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Posted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 3:48 pm
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