So, might ramble a bit here. Emotions are bit high right now, so bear with me. For a little while, you might think that this would belong in a different subforum, but I don't want to b***h, I want to get some advice for this situation.
So, know this: I'm from a small town, population around 500. Tiny school. Keep these things in mind.
I have a friend, we'll call her D. She has a close friend that we'll call E, a grade below D and I. These two recently decided that not only are they bi but in love with each other. They only tell a few people, because in our area, it would be a base for hazing and bullying. I myself am one of the few they trusted enough to tell. Well, my little sister, who is in the same grade as E, and who always hang around E like pre-adolescent girls hang around Justin Bieber, snooped around and managed to convince both E and D that they could trust her not to tell anyone their secret if they would only tell her. They told her, against my advice not to, and everything seemed okay for a bit. Then, suddenly, everyone knew about D and E's relationship. They both freaked out, and tried to figure out who snitched. We never did know who snitched, until my sister and I were talking and she told that while she didn't tell anyone that D was bi, she told pretty much everyone in her class that E was bi. The next day, I told D, who told E, who confronted my sister at break. Then my little sister came up to me crying and screaming about 'How could I betray her', and 'I said that to you as a sister! You were never supposed to tell anyone!'. Now, I have no idea what to do...I don't want my sister to hate me, but I feel like I did the right thing in telling D. HELP!!!
So, know this: I'm from a small town, population around 500. Tiny school. Keep these things in mind.
I have a friend, we'll call her D. She has a close friend that we'll call E, a grade below D and I. These two recently decided that not only are they bi but in love with each other. They only tell a few people, because in our area, it would be a base for hazing and bullying. I myself am one of the few they trusted enough to tell. Well, my little sister, who is in the same grade as E, and who always hang around E like pre-adolescent girls hang around Justin Bieber, snooped around and managed to convince both E and D that they could trust her not to tell anyone their secret if they would only tell her. They told her, against my advice not to, and everything seemed okay for a bit. Then, suddenly, everyone knew about D and E's relationship. They both freaked out, and tried to figure out who snitched. We never did know who snitched, until my sister and I were talking and she told that while she didn't tell anyone that D was bi, she told pretty much everyone in her class that E was bi. The next day, I told D, who told E, who confronted my sister at break. Then my little sister came up to me crying and screaming about 'How could I betray her', and 'I said that to you as a sister! You were never supposed to tell anyone!'. Now, I have no idea what to do...I don't want my sister to hate me, but I feel like I did the right thing in telling D. HELP!!!
