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Posted: Tue Jun 25, 2019 8:37 pm
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Posted: Thu Jul 25, 2019 9:38 am
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Posted: Thu Jul 25, 2019 10:38 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 01, 2019 6:55 pm
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Posted: Fri Aug 02, 2019 10:49 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 03, 2019 9:12 am
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-Vagtastic- Zphal -Vagtastic- No t anymore. I'm back in the South again. Lot has changed since then Indeed. Idk if I said but Neil and I are looking to move to Texas. A lot has changed on my end too. rofl Wait, What?!? I don't recall this being said before. What part of Texas? More importantly, who is Neil? Do I know said person?
Oh my... it has been awhile. Um... lemme just rewind a lot and hopefully find the point where we left off, LOL.
In mid-2011 I came out as transgender, started making changes (like cutting my hair, wearing men's clothing). My husband Mike (aka Cappy) was what I'd call gradually-supportive, in that he began threatening divorce (when I went to get a mastectomy in 2014), but kind of overcame it cuz "love wins" or whatever.
In 2015 I met a guy at my theme park job who I really liked, and turns out he really liked me back. He, unlike Mike, is actually gay. So Mike and I ended up breaking it off amicably (we actually still hang out a lot, like getting dinner, going to the movies, D&D nights with friends, etc.).
Aaanyway, I proposed to Neil in late 2017. So he's my fiancé. And we're looking at moving to Austin (or thereabouts), because the property values are cheap enough we could afford a mortgage so we can have kiddos and stuff. |
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Posted: Sat Aug 03, 2019 7:21 pm
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Zphal -Vagtastic- Zphal -Vagtastic- No t anymore. I'm back in the South again. Lot has changed since then Indeed. Idk if I said but Neil and I are looking to move to Texas. A lot has changed on my end too. rofl Wait, What?!? I don't recall this being said before. What part of Texas? More importantly, who is Neil? Do I know said person? Oh my... it has been awhile. Um... lemme just rewind a lot and hopefully find the point where we left off, LOL. In mid-2011 I came out as transgender, started making changes (like cutting my hair, wearing men's clothing). My husband Mike (aka Cappy) was what I'd call gradually-supportive, in that he began threatening divorce (when I went to get a mastectomy in 2014), but kind of overcame it cuz "love wins" or whatever. In 2015 I met a guy at my theme park job who I really liked, and turns out he really liked me back. He, unlike Mike, is actually gay. So Mike and I ended up breaking it off amicably (we actually still hang out a lot, like getting dinner, going to the movies, D&D nights with friends, etc.). Aaanyway, I proposed to Neil in late 2017. So he's my fiancé. And we're looking at moving to Austin (or thereabouts), because the property values are cheap enough we could afford a mortgage so we can have kiddos and stuff.
eek eek
Man, I really did miss a lot. Congratulations on your new life and happiness!! heart heart
I'm sorry to hear that Cappy wasn't that supportive in the beginning but it sounds like you all are doing good as friends now so that's awesome. Tell him I said hi if he remembers me. Lol |
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Posted: Sun Aug 04, 2019 8:42 am
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-Vagtastic- Zphal -Vagtastic- Zphal -Vagtastic- No t anymore. I'm back in the South again. Lot has changed since then Indeed. Idk if I said but Neil and I are looking to move to Texas. A lot has changed on my end too. rofl Wait, What?!? I don't recall this being said before. What part of Texas? More importantly, who is Neil? Do I know said person? Oh my... it has been awhile. Um... lemme just rewind a lot and hopefully find the point where we left off, LOL. In mid-2011 I came out as transgender, started making changes (like cutting my hair, wearing men's clothing). My husband Mike (aka Cappy) was what I'd call gradually-supportive, in that he began threatening divorce (when I went to get a mastectomy in 2014), but kind of overcame it cuz "love wins" or whatever. In 2015 I met a guy at my theme park job who I really liked, and turns out he really liked me back. He, unlike Mike, is actually gay. So Mike and I ended up breaking it off amicably (we actually still hang out a lot, like getting dinner, going to the movies, D&D nights with friends, etc.). Aaanyway, I proposed to Neil in late 2017. So he's my fiancé. And we're looking at moving to Austin (or thereabouts), because the property values are cheap enough we could afford a mortgage so we can have kiddos and stuff. Man, I really did miss a lot. Congratulations on your new life and happiness!! heart heart I'm sorry to hear that Cappy wasn't that supportive in the beginning but it sounds like you all are doing good as friends now so that's awesome. Tell him I said hi if he remembers me. Lol
It seems like a lot on paper, but it doesn't feel like a lot personally. I think it's because I ended up resetting, you know? Restarting as a man, restarting with a younger spouse. I haven't gotten "far" in life, but I'm getting closer to progress what with going back for my Master's degree and looking to buy a house in 2020. smile |
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