Best Friend Moving

[schizorain]

My best friend (who also happens to be my ex) is moving out of state. Really soon.

He just found out about it recently and they might be gone by the end of July.

This is really hard for both of us. He really isn't good when it comes to change. And this is really big.

I just don't think I'm ready for him to leave. I mean we'll keep in touch and all, but I know I'll miss him a lot.

This also poses another problem with me. My boyfriend will probably get angry/upset that my friend leaving is bothering me so much.

I don't know what to do...  

[Ice_queen_kat]

schizorain

My best friend (who also happens to be my ex) is moving out of state. Really soon.

He just found out about it recently and they might be gone by the end of July.

This is really hard for both of us. He really isn't good when it comes to change. And this is really big.

I just don't think I'm ready for him to leave. I mean we'll keep in touch and all, but I know I'll miss him a lot.

This also poses another problem with me. My boyfriend will probably get angry/upset that my friend leaving is bothering me so much.

I don't know what to do...

Tell your bf that your ex is important to you as a friend, you've been lots of times so I think your bf should accept it and comfort you.. Well, we can't do anything to stop them from moving so, better prepare yuorself for a big change.. as well as he.. just accept everything and move on.. Just remember, there's nothing wrong with being bothered, it's normal and you can't control your feelings.. so just go with the flow. follow what your feelings says and do what you think is right.. ^^ God bless..  

[Corynne]

If your boyfriend gets mad at you for that, he might not be the right person for you to be with.  

[ruby_dreams]

I wont lie to you, its gonna hurt when your bestfriend moves I know from experience. But after while youll feel better about it cause its not like hes disappearing forever. My best friend moved away when I was about 6 and im 14 now and we still stay in touch. We're a lot closer than we were too. Youll get used to it after a while. And as for your boyfriend you need to talk to him and explain that your bestfriend is just that, not your boyfriend, and if hes a good boyfriend he will understand that.  

[riu_xa]

I had my best friend move to Germany 2 years ago and I'm stuck in America. We were both really sad but we promised that we would keep in touch. Just try to get by and talk to him as much as possible. Sooner or alter you're goignt o feel better and you guys will still be great frineds. As for the boyfriend thing, sorry but I have no clue whatsoever to tell you about that.  

[Kirogata]

On the BF issue......

If he can't respect your feelings then really he needs to take a good look at himself. he should know that you care for him and that it is in fact your FRIEND moving, not your lover.