Ok heres my problem i know its not really serious like most other issues here but i have been chosen to be my best freinds best man at her wedding now my problem isnt that its just that im not good in front of people and i dnt know what to say!! gonkgonk HELP!
Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 11:06 pm
Just focus on something outside of the crowd or a tree or something.
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 11:35 pm
If you look at the wall past everyone... Not to the side, to the back of them. You'll look like you're looking at them. I used to do it when I got nervous- Try a quick run through with some random friends just do a random speech- ((not the one for the wedding)) just see if the wall thing works for you first.
Posted: Mon Aug 28, 2006 8:42 am
I use to have a big problem with speeches. I would stutter and then forget what I was going to say. I get nervous, I even ran from one speech. Well, just try to imagine the crowd as something nice. I usually practice in front of something inanimate, and when saying my speech I imagine the crowd to be whatever I practiced on. I know it sounds silly, but it worked for me.
I was in a wedding yesterday. All I did was think happy thoughts. I looked at the bride and groom and smiled thinnking about how happy they would be. I was really nervous at first but then i saw everyone looking at the bride and groom, not me. Just be your self!!
Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 6:57 pm
Practice in front of a mirror. Just a simple line will do it like : glad to be here, and wishing the best to my friend and his wife....then sit down and breath..... ninja
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