Problems With Love

[Seferius Slyferin]

Okay, I guess I should of written this earlier, before stuff started to blow up in my face..Trial and Error, I suppose.

So here's what's basicly going down, My ex-girlfriend whom I love still, still loves me, but since I dumped her there is a sort of.. "gap" inbetween us which makes me wonder if I should try and get together with her. I went out with her for a year and in that year, I also made a friend with one of her friends, whom eventully, started telling me lies about her that I belived, and when I confronted my ex about these, it started a fight between us, and I suppose our realationship couldn't handle that kind of stress.

The stuff I was told was pretty heavy. The Person who told me the lies said that she was cheating on me, and having sex with other guys, that she was showing her breasts on webcam to some random guys from the states and stuff.
So you can imagine what I'm thinking when I heard this, "What the ********?! I thought you loved me..I thought.."
Most of you don't know me, so basicly in real life and here I am an extermemly un trusting person..And the explanation on that we'll save for some other time..

So could you please give me adivce about my ex?  

[tinkys85]

just explain that u still love her and those things were said in a moment of weakness, say ur sorry if u love each other it should work out  

[Seferius Slyferin]

Yeah..I tried that before, then about a week later she got mad at me for something and she wouldn't talk to me for about three months..
I need something that will tell her I love her more than just words..  

[tinkys85]

it might take some time but u have to prove to her that u trust her  

[Seferius Slyferin]

Yeah, I guess...
It's just so hard, 'specially to hear her yelling at me again for doing some cold hearted thing.  

[tinkys85]

women are like that(i know it sounds weird a girl saying that anyway) she wants it everything to be back to nomal but when u do something that upsets her(and with women that can be anything sweatdrop sorry)then all the pain from those accusations come flooding back which in turn piss her off more, u can A. never piss her off(highly unlikely)B. just work through it and show her u will be there for her (no matter how much she yells at you) shes testing u because she doesnt want to be put in the postion to get hurt again i hope i helped  

[Seferius Slyferin]

sounds like that'll work, I'll give a report in a week or two.  

[Seferius Slyferin]

She's back now..So I'm going to find some time to talk to her when I'm not working.