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hrm. I'm in the same boat. No job, friends, or girlfriend.

Think for a moment. . . things could be worse couldnt they? *shakes his head yes for him*
As long as you have an imagination you could not possibly be bored. Just not using your noodle.
Want a job-prove it to them that they need to hire you. Figure out what you want to do, how much you want to earn and dont be lazy about it. You will get what you put into it.
A few friends are better than none at all! Listen to what they say and if it is sound advice take it, if they fill you with crap then go find other friends.
The girl friend thing. . . well maybe she is not ready for you. I met my hubby at age 44. I know no one wants to hear that neither did I when I was age 13-44. but finally I got to where I was really ready to be with someone and let him love me. Maybe it is not you. And if it is you then prepare yourself by practicing kindness and being a friend. You cant have a girl friend without knowing how to just be a friend.

As for BLAH BLAH BLAH &
ETC ETC ETC

Take time to enjoy yourself and get yourself ready for what the future will hold. Dont waste away in self pity or wallow in worry about what you dont have. Look at yourself-look hard and start with what is there. Then build on it. How do you eat an Elephant? the answer is one bite at a time and pretty soon you have devoured the whole humongous thing but if you sit and worry about how large the beast is, he will beat you. And dont let your friends drag you down and stop your growth. Really worthy friends will help you find ways to improve your life.

I am mommie and my goal is that someday all mykids real and on gaia will hear what I am saying. Have fun, love yourself and be kind to others. Life can be all that if you let it.
*steps off the soapbox and hits him with a pillow* blaugh