Youre the
Withdrawn Girlfriend
In the past you were badly wounded and have hidden your heart from the world, from attachment, from pain, and from love. You preferred loneliness to the agony of feeling, but then, he came into your life. At first, you didnt think you could trust him, but this guy kept coming back, kept pursuing, kept proving his loyalty and affection, so finally you agreed to be his girl. Now, slowly but surely, you are coming out of your protective shell into the open world of love and emotions. Even though you dont always appear very warm and friendly, you are a wonderful friend. Your loyalty is that of a bulldog: gripping and passionate, undying until death rips life from your hands. You are the definition of faithful. Once you do open up, you are openly affectionate and possess a fierce love.
Because of your previous wounds and emotional scars, you are very slow to trust and to feel. You have spent so much time building a protective shell around yourself that emotions have become strangled. You can appear cold and unapproachable, but that doesnt mean your hidden heart is any less tender and beautiful. Everyone, no matter how hard they work or what they convince themselves of, is desperate to love and to be loved. Its human nature.
Your guy must be loyal and trustworthy to a fault because without these two core elements you will never fully and truly bond with him. His patience and understanding are also essential to draw you out of your shell. Someone who understands you and your wounds (possible someone who has been wounded also) is vital to your relationship. Once you two are completely open with one another, a beautiful relationship will blossom, as will you, into a beautiful creature, a priceless diamond in the rough. Your love and story so beautiful its inspiring!
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You need understanding.
In your life there has been many people that could never seem too comprehend your personality. Now you have either become an out-cast because of their narrow minds or you have adjusted yourself to them, and never letting them see who you are deep inside. You now think that no one will ever understand you and you hate that fact. Though you are scared of what the effects might be if you would decide to let someone in so you keep a safe distance that you both curse and bless.