It seems when ever I'm in a good relationship, others are not. Within the past month, I have seen at least 7 couples break up. {Not naming names} Each one of them was on an "I love you" basis. Each couple had a different reason for breaking it off. Distance, Sarcasm causing issues, fights, accusations of cheeting, Lying, hate, and not understanding that "I love you" is not a term to be tossed around lightly outside of joking.
Each one comes down to pure lack of communication. Distance is merely a number if the love is there. Sarcasm can be elliminated if the two talk about what's wrong and right. Fighting can be stopped if the love is strong enough and the will is strong enough. Accusations of cheeting can be stopped if you just trust and talk to your companion. Lying is just plain stupid. Seriously. Hating a companion just is plain wrong. Look back to why you loved them in the firs place! And the worst of all. People who are in love with the idea of love but never the feeling. They feel like they always NEED a relationship.
To date, I have only had 2 REAL relationships. IE hugging, kissing, ect. The first one ended because of him. He fell in love with a friend. Sure, at the time, I was completely crushed.
But then I remembed.
I was only 16. I would live! I've got many many years ahead of me and something as meager as some guy breaking up with me would not end my life.
I vowed all through out highschool that I would not have a relationship that close. And I didn't. I'm glad I'm not attractive to the dumb guys at our school because I would have needed to reject them. School is more important. Even in the relationships I've had {the 2 real and others.} I have never once said that I wanted to be with them forever. Each relationship I went with the flow but never said forever because the meaning of FOREVER has changed.
It used to be till the end of time. Now it's until they get bored of each other.
For people in a relationship that has only gone 2 months, don't say you want to be with them forever. Chances are, it probably won't work unless you do truely love each other.
Also! People who just get in relationships for sex. I hope you get your v****a sewn shut. When did making love just become a past time? I can't even remember a time when I heard about sex as "Making Love" Now it's just sex, banging, ********, screwing. Almost like a game..... Or a band... Haha, Fingering, blowing, banging. Welcome to the band.
Seriously, people who go open their legs for random guys are sluts. I can understand doing it with someone you love and plan to be with for a while, but finding a random guy and opening your legs is just dirty. Same goes for guys. Finding some girl whose legs are spread so far open they are touching and banging them.. Ew.
I mean dear sweet Jesus. I hope you kind of people either get your v****a's sewn shut or your p***s's superglued to your a**.
Sadly I do know a few people like this and they discust me. Not naming names.
I think there's a quote for something like this... Oh yeah. "Don't leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love."
I mean come fricken on!
And the stupid relationships. Oh my god have I seen many of these recently. One of my friend's friend is in a relationship where the guy beats her physically and mentally. He told her that if she ever left him, he would breath really fast, puke up blood, and die.
I actually told him to tell her to say, "Shall I get the camera? This would be a medical miracle"
{For anyone who gets that, You can't cough up blood by breathing fast. You would pass out from lack of oxygen first.}
Seriously, maybe we should all take on like animals where they just go out for mating. Animals live in their world for three things. Living, making kids, and dying. That's it.
People who just go out and screw whoever is more animal than I am {Scary I know. xD!}.
Why can't you be like the animals who mate for life? We should be like those animals. They find the one they are meant for and live with them forever. They never have issues because they are meant for each other and communicate. Something most humans have a hard time doing. That makes animals much smarter than most humans. In fact really... All humans.
Well, it's 3 AM and I must finish this rant 'cause I am freaking tired. If you have any comments or would like to ask meh about a relationship issue {I am a love councilor after all. xDD! Love Ed. Haha.} Feel free to PM me.
I shall finish this rant with lyrics to a song.
I've been looking at people and how they change with the times, and lately all I've been seeing are people throwing love away and losing their minds. Maybe it's me who's gone crazy. 'cause I can't understand why all these lovers keep hurting each other when good love is so hard to come by. So what's the glory in living? Doesn't anybody ever stay together anymore? And if love never lasts forever, Tell me what's forever for?
And I see love-hungry people trying their best to survive. While in their hands is a dying romance and they're not even trying to keep it alive
So what's the glory in living? Doesn't anybody ever stay together anymore? And if love never lasts forever, tell me what's forever for?
This has been a Love Ed rant.
The L0ve Kitten Community Member 
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