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In ages past, there was an ideal woman. She was quiet, she was passive, she loved unconditionally, she nurtured the children, and she was beautiful. All things change, ideals included. Sometimes the change is due to an ideal that made no sense, or sometimes the ideal was so inconstant with the majority reality that reality forces it to become different.

Granted, few men have ever played with dolls beyond their childhood years. But those few men tend to be the ones who are also ideals. The men who desire this 'doll' sort of woman are the kind of men who tend to be sensitive, thoughtful, insightful, caring, and respectful. They're rarely the 'strong' variety of male though, and since they cling so tightly to their figurative dolls, they tend to be harder to find without them.

As a closing note, it's impossible to live without taking one's self into account.