Why do people think they have to be the judge of everyone else? I think it's because we think we are being judged, thusly we do everything we can to make ourselves appealing. Us girls jump throught hoops. FLAMING hoops trying to make ourselves appealing. And really, I don't think we do it to attract guys, we do it because we know other girls are judging us. And honestly, no guy is going to notice if you got new shoes, he is probably just wondering what your bra looks like. And it is a really ridiculous never ending circle. We shouldn't be judging eachother, yet we do, all of the time. perhaps not even knowing that we do. Even a silent "ugh" to yourself when you see someone with a shirt or shoes that are horrible looking. And even if you say things like I am saying, we still do it, no matter what. It's sick, but that is just how it works. I hate it. I really really hate it.
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