Hey you guys, right now, as you may know i'm covering any topics i've been asked about recently, seeing as i plan to become a crisis counselour. And, the great debate that starts up every time i talk to one of my sexually active friends is... -Drum roll- Are fantasies a bad thing? In some cases yes, but for others no. For example. A very close friend of mind has been livng in texas for awhile now, and she found these very distateful stories that her boyfriend wrote about himself and a pink haired girl with big boobs. And she sent me a text message yesterday telling me this:
My boyfriend _____ wrote some really detailed stuff about him and this pink haired girl. It was very graphic and now i'm confused to whether i should be mad or just relieved he hasn't tried any of this stuff for real. Is it possible that all his fantasizing might become a reality one day?If so, i'm going to kill him. >
My response is, no. Now, i know it may sound a little crazy, but fantasizing is actually not that dangerous. The only problem is, is that many couples do not talk about there fettishes and expect there partner to not like anything other than what they see in front of them. Sometimes you have to sex things up and try doing some of the stuff they dream or fantisize about. This'll liven up the relationship. The only problem that you might face (If not open to change) is that if you won't do it, they'll find someone else who will. So for all that were skeptical about this, now you know.
Inbox me topics lovelys! Peace.
excomunication · Mon Jul 04, 2011 @ 05:33am · 0 Comments |