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So recently, the person that I call my best friend has been making me incredibly annoyed. He was in a relationship a while back and for about six months he has complained to me about how he can't get over her. Almost every time I see him he makes some weird comment about how me misses her or how many problems he has because she's no longer in his life and I just don't really understand how he still is bothered by this. They dated for four months and they've been broken up for at least five months.

I will admit, it's sad getting out of a relationship. It sucks for a while. But a relationship that was only four months, it seems like five or six months is a really long time to take to get over someone. I just feel like she's more of an obsession now more than anything, and that's not really a good thing.

That's not the only thing that has been bugging me. Whenever I am with him, he does things to purposely annoy me. He pokes me all of the time and yanks on my hair, almost as if we were still in grade school. I hate it, and I tell him that. Then he will laugh and do it again. He also talks during the most important parts of a movie. We will be in the middle of a movie and he will just talk over it, and when I say 'what? sorry, I was into the movie" he gets so mad at me.

He's the kind of person that will tell you all of the negative things about yourself in hopes to make them feel better about themselves. He's always telling me of how chubby I am and how I should start working out, or he tells me that my kind of schooling is idiotic because I don't actually go to the campus since I'm an online student, which always irritates me. He always tries telling me that my school shouldn't matter unless I actually go to the campus to learn because otherwise I'm taking the easy way out.

I don't know why I felt the need to post this. I've just been feeling so frustrated with him lately, and it really bothers me that I have been feeling this way. I feel like a bad person for being annoyed by my best friend, but I just can't really take him anymore. I just don't really know what to do about him anymore.