I have read a thread depicting a situation between a girl and her boyfriend. Don't worry. I know of your situation and can solve your dilemma.
Okay, first off, you can't really MAKE someone like you and make it work. 'Cause if you lie about, say, who you are, for example, eventually they will find out and decide to quit with you. Tell the person who you really are and get to know them gradually. You know, learn a new thing or two every day or so.
Secondly, RELAX! If you're too tense around someone, they will feel awkward around you and find ways to ditch you; keep cool and if you start to lose your cool, just look around you. No one but you really cares what you do in that situation, so don't think of it as a show.
Third, take... it... slow. Talk to them once in a while and, when you're used to being around that person, go a little farther into it. Eventually, you'll have forgotten everything you used to be scared of when talking to that person, allowing your relationship to become more "meaningful".
Trust me on this. I took the same steps toward this new girl a few years back, and her and I have never been closer.
If you need any more help or suggestions for help segments, PM me. 'K? I will try to read and do as many as possible.
Grego Community Member 
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