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29 Dec '06

What exactly is love, I wonder? And is there good thing about loving someone?

I mean lovers' love. Not love for parents, siblings, or friends. It's that kind of love.

Is it just merely wanting each other's phone call everyday, a little peck on the lips every single minute, and huggies and cuddlies everytime they're alone? Or is it just human's egoistic: 'not wanting to be alone'? Because they wanted partner, someone they can love to?

I don't really understand. If I say I love someone, how do I know? How do I know if this is love, or this is just lust, or merely just special friendship? When you don't want to lose someone that is your friend --opposite sex-- is it called love? When you can't bare it when your friend --again, opposite sex-- didn't call and leave IMs you for a day, is it called love?

I'm in the state of confusion. neutral

~Ne-chan