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Today I hung out with my best friend. We went to best buy, then to my dads house, then back to my moms and he played video games while I did my moms homework, I think he had more fun than I did, But all in all, it was a fun day. Out of nowhere, he turned to me and asked me a question which kind of made me think a little bit. He asked me if my boyfriend minded that my best friend was a dude. It kind of caught me off guard and to be honest, I don't know if my boyfriend minds or not.

My bestfriend then went into a rant on how if it was his ex girlfriend and she had the male bestfriend, he would be jealous, but he's the jealous type, so I didn't pay as much attention to that. The rant went on for at least fifteen minutes while I was irritated with math. I have been thinking about that though, and I wonder if my boyfriend does ever mind. I know that my best friend said he likes my boyfriend, and my boyfriend said he likes my bestfriend. So, you can probably guess that I am happy to hear they like eachother, but the question still remains.

I have always thought it was kind of funny on how much me and my best friend have in common. We joke that we were actually meant to be siblings. Today I hadn't eaten yet and I told him that I needed to be fed. And aparently, he was thinking the same thing. So, of course we had to get food, but first we had to discuss video games and go to best buy to look at things. (I've noticed that I look at games a lot but I can never get myself to buy them, it's strange). After looking at the video games, we went and got food, to which we were both happy.

I think it's nice to have a best friend, whether it's a male or a female, that you can get along with so well. So, when my dads wife always told me that guys and girls can't be best friends, I always tried to clear things up and tell her that it really does work. We've been best friends for about two years or so. He and I have always had this easy going relationship. We don't judge, we play video games, and talk about life. We have such deep conversations sometimes that kind of drift into video games so it doesn't get too serious. And we tell each other almost everything. It's almost as if we actually are siblings. So, it's nice to have a friend that's almost like my sibling. I have had friends that I would count as sisters before, but it was always more of a joke in a way. With my bestfriend, I actually could consider him family. He knows more of my secrets than anyone. And I know a lot of his.